On Teleflora.com, our Mother's Day shopping guide identifies various types of moms - for example, Super Mom, Gourmet Mom, Modern Mom, Classic Mom, etc. On the blog, I'm highlighting a series of real moms who exemplify each one of the categories.
In the spotlight today is Modern Mom Kelcey Kintner of The Mama Bird Diaries, http://www.mamabirddiaries.com/.
Here's why she picked up a pen, figuratively speaking, of course: "I started blogging because as a former TV reporter/anchor, I really missed that daily creative outlet. Blogging allows me stay at home with my girls and pursue my non-fiction, humor writing. Plus, I love being a part of the parent blogging community."
Five Minutes with a Modern Mom
Q What was the biggest surprise for you as a mom?
A I knew my life would change but I just didn't realize how much I would change. Motherhood altered me forever. I worry more and stress more but love more deeply. I can't even imagine a life without out these two dazzling, beautiful little girls. They are my everything. And the things I used to worry about just seem so silly now.
Q Tell me about a challenge or a tough choice you made as a mom.
A My husband and I made the decision to change our daughter's name at 8 months old. I knew early on that the name just wasn't the right fit but I thought people would think we were crazy if we changed it. We finally went ahead and I have never regretted it for one moment. We changed her name from Presley to Summer. And she is perfectly Summer.
Q What is your favorite piece of parenting advice and how did you acquire it?
A Pick your battles. Yesterday, my daughters wanted to have their pudding dessert while they sat in their bubble bath. At first, I said no and then I thought, heck why not?! And they loved it. And my older daughter went to school for two months in the same Dora nightgown (I washed it nightly). At the end of the day, I would rather support their creative, free spirit and put my foot down about important things... like they have to hold my hand when we cross the street.
I'm sure I acquired the advice from other moms. That's where the best advice comes from. Those parenting books never helped me much at all.
Q What inspires you?
A My 4 1/2 year-old daughter inspires me when she takes the time to smell every tulip on the 20 minute walk to school (and there are A LOT). It inspires me to take the time to appreciate life. I am also inspired by compassion. When I see others doing good things or treating people with tremendous kindness, I am inspired to follow their lead.
Q As a Modern Mom, you typically have a very full plate and are juggling a number of different jobs. What’s your favorite way to de-stress and recharge?
A Honestly? Eating leftover Easter candy while watching "Gossip Girl." It takes a strong woman to admit that. Yoga also really helps me de-stress if I can drag myself to the gym. And blogging helps me recharge as well. It gives me the chance to focus on my own thoughts and creativity and it leaves me feeling very fulfilled.
Floral Fantasia makes a fantastic addition to any Mother's Day celebration.
